Pam Parker - May 12, 1951 - March 12, 2012

 

Pam Parker, wife, mother, grandmother, artist, inspiration and champion for the Boise Community died on Monday, March 12, 2012 at her home in Boise, Idaho.

Pam’s career started in 1972 as the bookkeeper for the Boise YMCA’s Executive Director and by the time she retired from the Y in 2003, she had directed a $13.5 million Capital Campaign used to build the National award winning West Family YMCA & Boise City Aquatic Center, acted as their Executive Director and as their Philanthropy and Communications Officer. She moved on to work with the Nature Conservancy as the Director of Philanthropy and finally to the Bogus Basin Mountain and Recreation Area as their Vice President of Development. With only a High School diploma, she developed this impressive career by working hard, seeing a need, and filling it – she achieved any goal set before her. The Idaho Business Review interviewed Pam and quoted her as saying, “I always felt like if somebody had expectations of me, then I must be able to do it – they wouldn’t ask me to do something I couldn’t do.” She continued by adding, “I’m very motivated to be creative and get the job done because I really care about it and have cared for all the people I have worked for and with.”

Pam was often recognized for her achievements and contributions. Some of the awards she received included Outstanding Development Executive Award by the Idaho Chapter of the Association of Fundraising Professionals, the WCA Joyce Stein Award for Pioneering Impact on Growth and Advancement of Women and the Association of Fundraising Professionals - Outstanding Development Executive Award.

Of all her achievements, Pam was most proud of her marriage of 42 years, her daughters, the home she built and the marathon she ran at age 50. Of all of her passions, cooking an elegant meal for her friends and family and being in the outdoors were the things she loved the most. Pam enjoyed backpacking, running in the foothills, sailing the San Juan’s and serving as co-pilot while flying in the Idaho backcountry with her husband.

She made every day count. If Pam wasn’t volunteering for community services, which included positions as an acting member of the Boise Art Museum Board of Trustees, Boise Metro Rotary Club and the American Cancer Society State Public Information Chair, she was giving to her friends and neighbors with her creative talents in cooking, sewing, gardening and the arts.

Pam had cancer and lived the last six years with incredible courage and grace. Her strength and positive outlook were always an inspiration to others.

She is loved and will be terribly missed.

Pam is survived by her husband, Bruce Parker; daughters, Kelli Parker and Abbie Parker and, their husbands Olivier Chatel and Steve Korol; her granddaughter, Elsinore Korol; sister-in-law, Le Kelleher; her parents, Marvin and JoAnn Turner; as well as her siblings, Joe Turner, Ival Turner, Pat Petrie, and all of their children and grandchildren.

A memorial service to remember Pam and the beautiful life she led will be held at 10:00 am on Sunday, March 18, 2012 at the West Family YMCA, 5959 N. Discovery Way, Boise, ID 83713. A celebration will follow. Details about the reception will be coming soon and will be on Pam’s blog at http://pamspipeline.blogspot.com/ , and to share memories with the family please visit Pam’s memorial webpage at www.cloverdalefuneralhome.com.

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that memorial donations be made to Bogus Basin Mountain and Recreation Area or the Boise Family YMCA.

Oh Yes He Did...

We need 3 ceiling fans for Jacob Springs.  I've looked at them all, I swear.  I saw this in the first store I went in and it is by far my favorite.  If I can shave enough money off other things, I may get one of these for the main room.  It's about $1,800.  That's ridiculous!

So, my brother and his wife needed a ceiling fan in their bedroom and they didn't want to pay the cost for a ceiling fan from a store.  So, my sister-in-law came home from work one day and my brother took her into the bedroom to show her that he had installed a ceiling fan for her...

This isn't theirs.  But he did indeed put a box fan on the ceiling.  You know how you can find thousands of pictures on the Internet of just about anything you're looking for?  Well, believe it or not, this is the only picture I could find of anyone else having put a box fan on their ceiling.  I know, hard to believe.

So, knowing my brother, I'm sure it's either strung up there with fishing line or duct tape.  God I love him!



I guess he's going to have to add Interior Designer to his business cards...

A Field of Poppies...

I love poppies, especially red poppies.  I'm going to plant a field of poppies at Jacob Springs - and put the tent in the middle of them.   Not this big...

 

Have you ever seen a more beautiful picture?

I H8 Lighting...

What a last few weeks it's been.  I've been packing, moving into a rental, and shopping for everything for house at Jacob Springs.  We have to get bids on everything in order to get a construction loan for the house.  I feel pretty good about everything except the lights.  I hate shopping for lights.  There are way too many to choose from, yet I can't seem to find exactly what I want. 

I am seriously thinking about going with these

throughout the whole house except in the bedrooms where we'd have ceiling fans.  Only in white.  They're plain, they're simple, fairly inexpensive, and well, I just like them.  They're old barn type lights.  Our house plan is such that we really only have a few rooms.  Two bedrooms, two bathrooms, a pantry, and a laundry room.  The entire rest of the house is one big open room.  Don't you think these lights would be cute in the pantry, laundry, and kitchen (hanging over the island)?  We would have to have some recessed lighting in the main part of the house as well.  We'd do something more like this

in the bathrooms.  

Oh, and guess what I picked out today.  We only have 7 interior doors, so I picked these out for the interior doorknobs.  Eeeeeeeeeeeeek!

They're so beautiful and remind me of my grandma.  So, tell me what you think about the lights.  Be honest! 

New Blog - Or Not...

I'm trying to decide whether to start a new blog for the barn house construction and living.  I have no idea how to do this unless I go with Blogger.com again and I'm not real impressed with blogger.  I'd rather do something where I could make it look a littler nicer.  I'm sure I'll have to pay a small hosting fee.  Does anyone have any ideas?  I know this won't end up being anything huge, probably just the same readers I have now  - all 6 of you!

But I'd like to have a bit more variety as far as font availability and setup.  In case you don't know, our property is called Jacob Springs and so I'd like to think of a new name for the blog as well.  The blog name doesn't have to include the words Jacob Springs, but it's an option. 

I've also found some fascinating history about our property and the area around it that I'd like to use to start my blog.  I think this is going to be fun if I can figure out how to start it. 

Ideas anyone?  Better yet, who can set one up for me!?

Free Range Chickens - and Coyotes...

Hidden Springs sits at the base of the the Boise foothills.  We are surrounded by thousands of acres of private and federal lands that are open and natural.  It's what makes it so beautiful and such a great place to live.  When people come into the Merc and tell me they are looking at homes here, or have just purchased a home, I always seem to say "You'll love it out here.  You'll never hear sirens, but you'll hear the coyotes instead."  I love the fact that we have coyotes, an occasional cougar, and bear that wander through our neighborhood.

When we first moved here, there weren't near as many houses as there are now.  One afternoon I looked out my window and saw two wolves in the open field below.  I loved it.  Adam and his friends would go down to the creek to play.  I knew that there were cougars and bears that had been spotted down there but having the creek so near by was just too awesome and I knew that more than likely, he would come home in one piece.

Today, we have free range chickens down at the barn. 



They're put in the hen house at night, but during the day, they're fair game for the hungry coyotes that lived here long before we took over their space.  Some of the residents are now fearful that these coyotes are dangerous and shouldn't be in the neighborhood.  That makes me sad because I have a feeling that it won't be long until Fish and Game is sent out to kill any brave enough to be around during the day. 

I will never, ever understand why people move outside the city and then have a fit or are fearful when wildlife enters their backyards.  If you have outdoor cats, they won't live long here.  If you let Fifi out of the yard, Fifi might not survive.  Keep your cats inside, your dogs in their fenced yards, and teach your kids what to do if they see wildlife.  If that doesn't do it and you're still afraid, please, move back to town.  There are a lot of us out here that live here because we love the wildlife.  If you are afraid for your children or your pets, please don't move here - we have wild animals nearby.  They live here - they deserve to be here.

I'm glad we'll be up on the property by the end of the summer.  I'm starting to get real cranky with people who don't understand that the wildlife is an important part of this community and if they take the proper precautions, they can live with the wildlife instead of replacing it with a sterile environment. 

Carry on!

25 Things...

One of my favorite blogs is Meridian Road.  I like the things she does and I love the fact that she's local.  I haven't found too many local blogs that interest me.   Her last post was "25 Things" and I thought it would be fun to do.  So, here's 25 things about me that you may or may not know, and may or may not care about!

1.  My wardrobe consists of jeans, t-shirts, and sweat shirts - and most have Boise State Broncos logos on them.  Rather embarrassing when I think about it, but it's what I'm comfortable in.

2.  I love to do cross stitch.   It got hard to do several years ago so I quit.  But, I now use readers and have started again.

3.  My dream job would be to be a picker.  I just love almost anything old.  My tastes have now gone toward primitives.

4.  We're building our dream house.  Not a dream house like most would think of.  It's a barn with a huge open space in the middle, 2 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms and a laundry room.  Very basic but it's what we want.

5.  I never cry.  I think there's something wrong with me.  That's just not normal.

6.  I have a collection of old clocks.  I especially love old alarm clocks. 

7.  If I won the lottery, I would take care of friends and family, then have a wonderful time making donations to people and charities that needed help.

8.  My dream vacation would be on a tropical island - or having free reign in an old ghost town.

9.  I would love to be a glass blower.
 
10.  I can't scream.  None of the women in my family can scream.  If I ever need to scream, I'm screwed.

11.  I would love to see Vermont.

12.  I would love to have a makeover.  A REAL makeover.  I bet they'd make me wear a dress.

13.  I would love to see a UFO - and bigfoot.

14.  I love to gamble.  I'm a sucker for penny slot machines.  If I had unlimited funds, I could sit at them for days.

15.  I have a hard time connecting to women and get along much better with men.  I always feel like women are judging me and it makes me feel insecure.

16.  When I was in high school, my best friend and I went to a party at a campground in Garden Valley. Some "strangers" had invited us after they asked us for directions.  These strangers ended up dancing around the campfire naked while I sat in the car, honking the horn (my friend has disappeared), terrified I was going to be killed. 

17.  I would love to have another German Shepherd.

18.  I want miniature donkeys.

19.  In my younger days I dated several men because I felt sorry for them.  I even married one of them and then he committed suicide.  I should have realized then that I was going to make men miserable!

20.  I love taking baths in my jetted tub.

21.  I tend to overextend myself.  There's still so much I want to do and so many people I want to help that I have a hard time saying no, or not being the first one to volunteer.  I usually end up disappointing others and myself.

22.  I've never had a boy/man break up with me.

23.  I've never been fired from a job.

24.  My favorite job was when I worked for Fish and Game.  I loved getting out into the field when I could and loved the people I worked with.

25.  I would love to have a reading with a psychic.

That's it!  If you have a blog, I'd love to see your 25 things.  If not, post them below.  It was hard for me to think of 25, so you don't HAVE to do them all.

I Need to Find Some Old Bricks...

This will be going somewhere on Jacob Springs.  I was looking for uses for an old cabinet door - something I could make for the Hillbilly auction, and came across this.  I'd like to make it a little more rustic looking though.  Maybe even leave a few old bricks on the ground to make it look like they had fallen off the structure.  There's also too much "stuff" in front of the brick, but I love the old wheelbarrow (we just happen to have 2 of them) and then put some seating in front. 

This would be a great project for Ival and I to do together.  I wish I had hauled all those awesome old bricks off the property Linda and Bob lived on.  They would have been perfect.

Does anybody have some old bricks laying around?

One More Elmer Story...

But before I tell you about that, we met with Idaho Power yesterday and got the info about getting power to Jacob Springs.  It looks like it might cost a bit less than we had planned for - YEA!  Then Ival met with the well driller.  We could have both done by the end of April - then on to start the house!

So, our buyers don't want the chickens.  We have a community "hen house" down by the community barn.  So, while the hens were roosting last night, Elmer gathered them all up and seatbelted them into the truck.

Just kidding.  We stuffed them into a 24 x 12 Rubbermaid container and threw the container into the back of the truck, in the dark of night.

We pulled down near the barn and noticed a truck there.  The lights were on in the old farmhouse that's been restored so Elmer decided that the truck people must be in there.  Lights off, we pulled up near the fence, Elmer quietly go out, retrieved the Rubbermaid chickens, and tip-toed off into the dark.  Moments later, I see him tip-toeing back, container in arms - obviously still heavy with chickens.

"Oh shit, was there somebody out there?"
"Yeah, somebody was in the hen house with a flashlight."
"Now what are we going to do?"
"Let's go home and come back in 15 minutes."

So, the Rubbermaid chickens rode back home until we felt it was safe.  We drove back down just as the truck was leaving the farm.  Lights off, we pulled up next to the fence and repeated the process, this time however, Elmer came back with an empty container.

I guess we'll have to stop by the farmhouse today and see if the girls survived the night - out alone, with the owls and coyotes.  If they did, they'll have a great life living in that hen house with all the other girls.

Can You Help?

I have been blessed in my life and in order to "pay it forward" I have tried to raise money for a worthy charity at least once a year. This year, I've chosen Wish Granters because they really need the help and I know that all the money will go to granting adult wishes.  Wish Granters is operated by my old boss at Wishing Star.  He saw a need for granting wishes to adults with terminal illnesses.  Doug has worked hard to ensure that his office space is donated and all of his office equipment was donated.  Doug has made sure that every dime donated to this wonderful charity goes to make sure these people have their last wishes taken care of.  There is basically no overhead. 

Wish Granters has restored vehicles, built storage sheds, arranged final family reunions, fenced yards, and made sure that a man got to meet the Boise State Broncos football players just to name a few.  But, there are still a lot of wishes that need to be filled and they receive more requests every day.

I want to raise $10,000 for them at the Hillbilly Gatherin'. In order to do this, I have to have 140 items for our silent auction. If you have something you could donate, you could really help us achieve this goal.

Do you have something in your closet you've been gifted? Are you crafty? Do you work at a restaurant that might donate a gift certificate? Family and friends, I really need your help!


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